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[quote="Littig"]Oh and sorry to say, people are "killed" quite often from stupid snap decisions by others - speeders, trying to get through an intersection, trying to drive "just to the next city" late at night and falling asleep, mothers who run in to answer the phone when their children are playing by a pool, the guy who incredibly "forgot" his child in the hot car, a group of kids who dare each other to swim across a lake, etc, etc. Many of those circumstances are momentary decisions, many are crimes, often people die. The guilty in those situations often find more capacity for forgiveness than someone who has been perpetuating a crime for half a decade. What's so hard about this concept?[/quote] Understanding that people get hurt by accidents or bad decisions isn't hard. It's the connection of these to the act of drunk driving that I find disgusting. Everyone makes mistakes, and most people end up paying for them. But getting drunk and getting into a car is a mistake in the same way that taking a gun loading it, and firing into a shopping mall is a mistake. Unfortulately, your perception of it seems to be societies, which is why it is such a big problem and why so many people are hurt by it. If we didn't view drunk driving as a "mistake", but as a serious crime, we could control it much better than we do. In fact, the thought process that led Vick to do what he did, and the thought process that leads someone to drink and drive is actually quite similar. Vick probably isn't a psychopath that decided killing dogs was his life's calling. He probably felt the same thrill that people who go to bullfights, or UFC fights feel. He probably had some felon friends who told him they could set it up, and so they did, and thousands and thousands of people came to see them. And they all had a good time. And then, because it's convienient, easy, and because he didn't really think about the consequences, when they said "we got to put some of these guys down" he went along with it. He just blocked it out of his mind, just focused on the fun part, and let the fun keep going. The thought process that goes into someone drinking and driving? They aren't psychopaths that want to kill other humans, they just feel like having a good time getting drunk. And because it's easy and convienient, they "forget" to have someone else drive, or to get a taxi, or to stay the night. Frankly, a lot of people think driving drunk is their right. They stumble out into the night, and even though by now everyone is painfully aware of the devestation and murder that takes place when people drink and drive, they just shut it out of their minds. They just block out the damage and risk they are taking and say "the hell with it, nothing bad will happen". They block it out when they set out for a night of drinking. And I'll tell you what, what Vick did was despicable, but I bet you almost anything that he never does it again. Even if he's allowed back in the NFL, I bet he's "learned his lesson". And I'll tell you that peole who kill others driving drunk are not doing it for the first time, and those that get caught doing it, end up doing it again and again. Honetly, what Little did, taking the life of another person through his willful decision to get drunk and drive is SO MUCH MORE DESPICABLE than Vick killing dogs. What is so hard about this concept? And why does our society have such a hard time realizing it?
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