| Mr. Ed 
 
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   | Jerry Kill wanted his players to meet a special visitor who stopped  by to see the new Gophers football coach one day during spring practice. Kill had struck up a friendship with a 9-year-old girl who is  battling cancer. She has his cell phone number, he keeps track of her  progress. Kill took the girl around the football complex, introducing  her to his players.
 He gathered a group of three or four players afterward for a little  heart-to-heart chat. They hadn't bought into the new program fully yet,  weren't on board with all their responsibilities. Kill hit them between  the eyes with a message.
 "I pulled them aside and said, 'Hey, do you know what this little  girl is battling?' Kill recalled. "'Do you see her smile and see how  positive she is and you're out here moping around and you can't get your  butt to class and do what you're supposed to? Shame on you.'"
 This is Jerry Kill in a nutshell. Direct, to the point, always  willing to deliver tough love when needed. He cares about his players,  but he also holds them accountable. If you stray, you could find  yourself wearing a shirt that reads "I let my teammates down" in pink  letters. Or scooping up horse manure in a barn.
 This is exactly what the Gophers football program needs at this  moment. Instead of hot air and pie-in-the-sky promises, the Gophers need  reality and a stern hand. Maybe even a (figurative) kick in the pants  at times.
 Discipline is at the core of Kill's being. It's how he intends to  build a foundation for future success, a blueprint he employed at  previous stops.
 Make no mistake, Kill must change the culture of a program that  admittedly has certain inherent challenges but too often operates with a  palpable defeatist attitude borne of years of losing.
 The Gophers never will have enough talent to cut corners. They have to win by being disciplined and tough-minded.
 Change won't happen overnight, and attrition will be part of the  process. But Kill wants his players to know that it's not OK to skip  class, it's not OK to arrive late to study hall, it's not OK to jump  offsides on third-and-2. If his players don't believe those things are  interrelated, they will continue down the same path they're on.
 "I can say right now players are definitely scared of getting in trouble," quarterback MarQueis Gray said.
 That's a start. Kill doesn't like using the word punishment, though.  He prefers to call it an "educational experience." Which is a polite way  of saying, ''You'll learn the hard way that there are consequences for  your actions."
 Kill hatched an idea for another educational experience while having  lunch with Hennepin County Sheriff Rich Stanek. The two created a  community service program this summer for players who fell short of  their responsibilities, either academically or off campus.
 The players were required to perform at least four hours of labor at  the Three Rivers Park District in Medina on Saturday mornings. Their  work included cleaning barns of police horses that patrol the parks.  They also pulled weeds from a community garden that supplies vegetables  to homeless shelters and food shelves.
 "We spend our Saturday mornings doing some old-fashioned hard labor," Stanek said.
 Both Kill and Stanek note that few players required a second visit.  Several of them got to see a horse in person for the first time in their  life so, hey, it was an educational experience.
 Amazingly, some fans have complained in e-mails that Kill is too hard  on his players, which is utterly ridiculous. This isn't Pop Warner. A  program trying to find its way can't be half-committed. You either are,  or you're not.
 Junior linebacker Mike Rallis said teammates had numerous  conversations during the coaching search about what kind of coach they  wanted and needed. They kept coming to the same conclusion.
 "It was a general consensus that we needed someone who's going to provide some discipline for us," he said.
 Well, they got him. Now it's up to them to take advantage. Kill's  tenure at Minnesota ultimately will be judged on wins and losses and not  how many barns his players clean. But those two things are not mutually  exclusive.
 "My job is to take an 18-year-old and make him a better man by the  time he's 22," Kill said. "If we win some games, that's great. But more  importantly to me, they're not going to put my wins and losses on my  tombstone. But if I can teach them to do the right things, we'll win a  lot of games. Plus, when you go to the pearly gates someday, you're put  on Earth to help people. I'm educating kids. It's not being mean or  tough. I'm just educating them the way that I think they need to  understand the importance of doing the right things."
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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