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ORIGINAL: MDK http://www.espn.com/espn/feature/story/_/id/22349868/the-family-tennessee-titans-legend-steve-mcnair-left-behind Great story about the widow of Steve McNair and her two sons. Great article, Miles. Great kids and a great mother. A story about them. And moving on, but not forgetting. Steve made mistakes, but was for the most part a great father, a good man and a mediocre husband. But not a miserable guy. He messed up...big time...and it sounds like he messed up many times before. His wife has amazing forgiveness. Those kids will go places, and so much of if is because of mom. Been mulling this one over for a good long time. Thanks for sharing Miles, I went into ESPN and read it. A couple times. ESPN does a great job with these type of stories, their E60 creations are often the best stuff on TV, imo. But this one bugs me. Cannot agree more with you on her strength, her childrens excellent emergence from their dad's huge shadow, etc , but ... The complete story itself leaves me sad and upset that Steve is still allowed to be looked at as some sort of hero by some. When your true character is laid bare, and the real you emerges, and it unfortunately shows you to be a lying cheating asshole to people that love you, then maybe it should just be told that way. These are strong kids and a strong woman, who were lied to and cheated on and left to fend for themselves. Just saying they shouldn't look at him like a superhero who was tired and weak in front of them, yet pulled it together in front of others. Was he too weak and beat up to run across town and cheat with some little young hot thing/ No, he wasn't. He obviously didn't burden his cute little thing with his pain, with his tiredness, with his baggage. He pulled it together when he wanted THAT, and that's what he was. A dog pretty much. And many men who cheat do not get caught, and won't suffer the same embarrassment to their legacy, but he did. It happened, and he should pay the price. He made tons of money playing a game he loved, he fathered two great sons, and found himself a wonderful woman to guide his sons. And yet still had to be a dog. Probably too harsh, but we all look at these issues differently. Imo, if you can't resist the urge, please clear your table FIRST. Don't sweep your spouse and your children into the dirt pile. Let them walk away before you dump on them. Give them their dignity before your weaknesses almost ruin their lives. Sorry, had to get it off my chest. Touchy subject with me, and I can luckily say I've probably been affected by cheating less than anyone I know. Not sure why it's such a thorn to me, but it is. The ultimate betrayal. And I realize that wasn't the point of the story. Its a great story about two strong kids and one strong woman. Thanks for sharing Miles.
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